Southampton Trails Preservation Society
SOUTHAMPTON TRAILS PRESERVATION SOCIETY
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Bridgehampton, NY 11932

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It’s not the sort of place you would find unless you knew where to look. But it’s there, down an unassuming
path off Widow Gavits Road south of Sag Harbor deep in the Long Pond Greenbelt — a clearing with an
unobstructed view of Crooked Pond. In the clearing sits a bench for reflection and a granite marker bearing
a plaque in tribute to the life of author Truman Capote and his partner, author and playwright Jack Dunphy.

It may seem an unlikely resting place for someone like the flamboyant Capote and his partner, but late in the
summer of 1994, a group of friends, family and acquaintances joined staff from The Nature Conservancy in a
ceremony that would permanently tie the pair to the spot. That day, the ashes of both Capote, who died in
1984, and Dunphy, who passed away in 1992, were spread on the waters of Crooked Pond.

This Saturday at 10 a.m., Canio’s Cultural Café and Friends of the Long Pond Greenbelt lead a “Black &
White Hike” to the site in honor of Capote’s fall birthday. Named in honor of Capote’s 1966 “Black & White
Ball” in Manhattan which was said to have been the literary event of the century, the hike begins at the Long
Pond Greenbelt Nature Center on the Bridgehampton Turnpike. After a visit to the memorial, it ends there as
well with a reception that includes a recording of Capote reading his work, a display of Capote memorabilia
owned by friends, and samplings of Cousin Sook’s fruitcake from his short story “A Christmas Memory.”























Stuart Lowrie, Conservation Finance and Policy Advisor at The Nature Conservancy in East Hampton,
remembers that August day when Capote and Dunphy’s ashes were spread on Crooked Pond. Though their
final resting place may be unassuming to the casual visitor, he notes that the importance of Capote and
Dunphy’s gift to the preservation the Long Pond Greenbelt cannot be underestimated.

THE HISTORY:

Though Capote and Dunphy lived in Sagaponack, upon his death, Dunphy stipulated through Gerald Clark,
Capote’s biographer and executor of the estate, that the money from the sale of the property should go to a
local charitable organization. That organization was The Nature Conservancy.

“The agreement was we would take the property, not hold it, but sell it and use the proceeds to buy land in
the local area,” explains Lowrie.

At the time, preserving the undeveloped areas of the Long Pond Greenbelt, a series of rare and pristine
coastal plan ponds, was a priority for groups like TNC, as well as Southampton Town and Suffolk County.
Beginning in the 1980s, the three groups agreed to pursue land preservation together, with Southampton
Town focusing on acquisitions in the northern part of the Greenbelt, the county focusing on the southern
sections and TNC on the middle parcels with the goal of creating one contiguous preserve.

“It’s off the charts in importance for New York State,” explains Lowrie of the coastal plain ponds
environment. “A lot of southern species find their northern limit on Long Island and are combined with
northern species that you won’t find further south.”

“That’s what drew TNC to it,” he adds. “They looked at the biological diversity and felt this was a cultural
treasure we should all be working to preserve for future generations and its own sake.”

The money realized by TNC from the sale of Capote and Dunphy’s Sagaponack estate was used to buy
close to 20 crucial acres that linked preserved Greenbelt lands to the north and south. The Capote/Dunphy
Preserve, as it is officially known, encompasses a peninsula that sticks out into Crooked Pond from the east
and covers the pond front access that is a priority for TNC.

“Coastal plain ponds are an expression of the ground water table and the level fluctuates over time,
depending on the water table,” explains Lowrie. “What we were after were the shorelines. If you can control
even the first hundred feet of shoreline you can protect the ponds as long as the groundwater remains pure
and there’s no nutrient intrusion.”

Money from the Capote and Dunphy estate was also used in concert with Southampton Town funds to
purchase the Milton Grobow parcel which lies directly across the way on the western shore of Crooked
Pond.

“Grobow was important because it was this parcel that separated the completed Greenbelt. It was the real
trail link,” explains Lowrie.

That property, just under 40 acres or so, was bought for $29,000 an acre, which Lowrie recalled seemed like
an outrageous sum of money in the mid-90s, but now would be quite the bargain.

“The Nature Conservancy closed on the northern half, and Southampton on the southern half and we
secured trail rights,” says Lowrie. “That’s what the Capote money allowed to happened. It’s a wonderful
story and one that Truman and Jack would be pleased by. Their money really did make a huge difference.”

Back in 1994, Lowrie was among those at TNC who helped organize the memorial ceremony and stone
dedication on their newly acquired property. He notes that it was important to Gerald Clark that there be a
marker at the site and Bistrian’s sand mine in Wainscott had agreed to donate the stone, so Lowrie and his
TNC associate, Peter Wahn, took on the task of picking it out.

“They pulled out a bunch of stones for us to look at. There were a lot of big lumpy ones, and among them
was a piece of pink granite vaguely triangular in shape,” says Lowrie. “The pink triangle has resonance with
the gay and lesbian community, so we ended up with a pink triangular piece of granite. The executor picked
quotes from Truman and Jack’s writings, and those were cast in bronze and mounted on the stone.”

Lowrie notes that in the summer of 1994, Crooked Pond was much drier than it is today, and he recalls the
difficulties posed by the need to actually reach the water that day.

“There was not much pond and it was way out there,” says Lowrie. “The point was to throw the ashes into
water, not on the mucky shore.”

So Lowrie and Wahn built a ramp with planks and cinderblocks long enough to reach the pond. On the day
of the memorial while waiting for the guests to arrive, Lowrie got word that Jack Dunphy’s sister was on her
way. Before long, a stretch white limo came into view from down Widow Gavits Road. Because Dunphy’s
sister was frail, the decision was made to take down the fence by the road entrance so the limo driver could
make his way the 1,000 or so feet down to the site.
























“It was touch and go for a while,” grins Lowrie. “All of us were here in plain nature on this beautiful day, then
there’s this giant stretch white limo in the middle of this beautiful site.”

But for Lowrie, the most poignant moment of the day came with the unexpected appearance of a bird
overhead — a bird that seemed to punctuate Dunphy’s quote on the plaque, which reads: “I was grieving
the way the earth seems to grieve for spring in the dead of winter, but I wasn’t afraid, because nothing, I told
myself, can take our halcyon days away.”

“Halcyon is the Latin name for belted kingfishers,” notes Lowrie. “As Truman and Jack’s ashes are being
scatted, this belted kingfisher comes flying around from the end of the pond.”

Halcyon days indeed.

















The Capote Black & White Hike” begins at 10 a.m. on Saturday, October 23, 2010 at the Long Pond Greenbelt Nature Center, 1061
Bridgehampton/Sag Harbor Turnpike. Black and white dress is encouraged. A reception follows at the nature center at 11 a.m. In addition to
readings and refreshments, Truman Capote’s cherry-red Mustang, now owned by his Sag Harbor friends Myron Clement and Joe Petrocik, will be
on display along with a 1947  photograph of Capote signed by LIFE photographer Jerry Cooke. The photograph will be for sale with a portion of the
proceeds to benefit Friends of the Long Pond Greenbelt and Canio’s Cultural Café. There is a suggested donation of $10 for the event. For more
information, call 725-4926.
Colorful Truman Capote in Black and White
Courtesy of the Sag Harbor Express   October 21, 2010
Story by Annette Hinkle
Truman Capote’s and Jack Dunphy’s
ashes were spread here in 1994
Did You Know: Truman Capote - who died in Joanna Carson's home (the ex Mrs. Johnny Carson),
was cremated and his ashes split between Joanna and his lover on the East Coast, fulfilling his wish to
be eternally bi-coastal.  Carson kept the ashes in the bedroom he died in at her home in Bel Air. Then on
one Halloween, during a costume party, they were stolen, along with some of his mementoes and
$200,000 worth of jewelry.  Six nights later, a mysterious car dropped off the ashes, leaving them in a
coiled-up garden hose on her back steps.  Carson, fearful that the remaining ashes could be stolen
again, bought Capote a crypt at Westwood Memorial Park, near his friends Marilyn Monroe and Natalie
Wood.